Whether you're looking to melt away your partner's stress, seduce them with erotic, sensory play or kick start the romance in a sexless relationship, a thoughtful, sensual massage can transform an ordinary day into an extraordinary experience of closeness and highly-charged mutual pleasure... Best of all, you don’t have to be a trained massage therapist – anyone can do it!
How to set the mood for your sexy massage
Creating the perfect ambience is an art form that can turn a simple massage experience from mundane to magical. Think of yourself as a conductor of sensory experiences – your mission, should you choose to accept it, is to create an environment that invites relaxation, anticipation, and intimate connection.
To help the mood, start by making the room comfortable and warm. Your partner will probably be naked or at least semi-naked, so turn up the heat to stop the shivers – and make sure you won't be disturbed.
You can also turn off the overhead light and add a little romance with some fairy lights or tea lights. Harsh lighting can be an uncomfortable distraction during massage.
Essential mood-setting checklist
Ensure the room is comfortably warm
Clear the space of clutter and distractions
Dim the lights or use soft, warm lighting
Select a playlist of gentle, rhythmic music
Lay out a soft, clean towel or heated blanket
Light a candle or burn an aromatherapy wax melt to scent the room
Gather your high-quality massage oil and a massage wand or handheld massager
Everything you need for a sensual massage
