Sex in public. Does it sound thrilling to you?
If you’re a bit of an adrenaline junkie, then using public sex toys might interest you! This way, you can satisfy your fantasies of being sexual in new and interesting places without possibly being charged with public indecency. Here are some ideas to explore.
Butt Plugs in Public
Wearing a plug out to the store or to work is a simple, hassle-free way of toying in public. The anal canal is a vacuum, so butt plugs are sure to stay in place securely. If you are planning on wearing a plug long-term, make sure to get something with a T-shape base, not a round one, as round and heart-shape bases are prone to rub uncomfortably.
Public plug wearing is a huge turn-on for many because it feels extra-naughty. It also delivers a sensation of constant fullness.
Public butt plug tips: Remember, butt plugs require lube! For longest-lasting power, which is so slick and doesn’t dry up. If your plug ever starts to feel uncomfortable, it’s time to lube again or give your booty a break.
Remote Controlled Vaginal Vibes
Being able to control your partner in public or anywhere, really is a hugely popular fantasy. How turned on will they get? Will they make any noise? Can you make them squirm? And as the person being remote controlled, you get to learn what it feels like to be really turned on in public; to have your pulse race at the thought of what your partner will do to you next.
Wearable vibrators that fit inside the vagina tend to be quieter than external vibes—which is a plus if you want to be discreet in a quiet setting. Some public-play enthusiasts also think that having something inside rather than outside their bodies makes them feel sexiest.
The best remote vaginal vibes are also app-controlled, so you get a lot more functions and customization through the app.
Finally, weighted kegel balls are the simplest kind of vaginal toy for public play, which is an excellent intro, because you don’t need to worry about changing speeds or noise level.
Public vaginal toy tips: Occasionally app controlled vibes may run into Bluetooth connectivity issues. You’ll need to reconnect the toy to the phone, and possibly reposition the external section where the antenna is. Also, vaginal toys may start to feel heavy after a while. Bring a storage pouch along with you in case you want to remove the toy at any point.
Panty Vibes for Clitoral Play
If you’re most turned on by clitoral stimulation, then a panty vibe is the way! These remote-controlled vibes give lots of sensation to the clitoris, the most sensitive erogenous zone for most.
Panty vibes are great for teasing while out and about. They may or may not be orgasmic while you’re out, some clits do need more pressure, or more power, than others.
Public panty vibrator tips: Noise levels are usually louder with external vibrators, so test beforehand, to see how quiet an area you need to use the vibe in. Crowded restaurants and clubs should be loud enough to disguise any noise. Having the vibrator in place when you leave home is easiest, but you can also insert and/or reconnect in a public bathroom. With panty vibrators, many people prefer wearing their own underwear to the lacy thongs typically included in such kits. That way, you get a better, more comfortable fit.
Get Your Pulse Racing
Using sex toys in public may sound dangerous: something to get your heart racing. To tease and to play, while out and about, these toys are perfect for a hot date night or for adding a spark to routine trip anywhere outside the house. From butt plugs to remote-controlled clit and vaginal vibes, the options for discreet public play have practically exploded over the last few years. Talk to your partner about what they might like, or pick one out for yourself; either way, have fun exploring!